A Christian author named Tony had been visiting a city for the first time and planned to drive home after attending the Sunday morning worship service of a local church.ย At one point in the service a man prayed aloud for a friend.ย โDear Lord, you know Charlie Stoltzfus.ย He lives in that silver trailer down the road a mile. Heโs leaving his wife and kids this afternoon, so please do something to keep that family together.โย The man said again, โThatโs Charlie Stoltzfus, who lives in the silver trailer just a mile down the road.โย Tony was annoyed, thinking to himself, โMister, donโt you believe God already knows who youโre talking about?ย Do you really think the Lord is saying, โWhatโs that address againโ?โย After the worship service, Tony was starting the drive home when he saw a hitchhiker, so he picked him up.ย โHi, my nameโs Tony,โ he said, and the man answered, โHi, Iโm Charlie Stoltzfus.โย Tony was dumbfoundedโit was the man for whom the prayer had been offered.ย Suddenly knowing what the Lord wanted him to do, Tony turned around, drove past the church, and kept on going for another mile.ย The hitchhiker said, โHey, where are you taking me?โย โHome,โ Tony responded, and drove him right to his trailer, saying, โThis is where the Lord wants you to beโwith your wife and kids.โย Charlie was stunned; he silently got out and went inside.ย That afternoon he and his wife had a serious and honest talk, and both ended up surrendering their lives into the hands of the Lord Jesus (William J. Bausch,ย Storytelling the Word,ย p. 148).
There was a time when our society honored marriage, discouraged divorce, and supported the Churchโs efforts to help husbands and wives remain faithful to their wedding vowsโbut unfortunately, that time is past.ย Married couples often seem to be swimming against the tide; theyโre under a lot of pressure these days, facing worries, temptations, and stress their parents and grandparents never experienced or even imagined.ย Sometimes the Lord wantsย usย to lend a helping hand to a married couple we know.ย We may not feel we have a lot to offer in this regardโbut God is able to multiply our simple favors and expressions of support, and this can truly make all the difference.ย
Jesus had not planned on working a miracle at the wedding celebration in Cana, but He couldnโt say no to His Mother.ย He had grown up seeing firsthand the perfect marriage shared by Mary and Joseph, and thus He knew from experience that God wants to be present in the life of every married couple.ย Indeed, the Prophet Isaiah uses the image of such a relationship, saying, โas a bridegroom rejoices in his bride, so shall your God rejoice in you.โย Mary may have had this passage in mind as she asked her Divine Son to save the newlyweds from embarrassment when it was discovered the wine had run out.ย We canโt work miracles on behalf of married couples, but there are certainly things we can do to support and encourage them. St. Paul list many different gifts given to believers by the Holy Spiritโand whatever our gifts are, the Lord wants us to use them for the benefit of the people around us.
In one of his many books author Jonathan Cahn, a Jewish convert to Christianity, talks about the wedding in Cana, saying, โThe first recorded miracle of [the] Messiah was the changing of water into wine.ย But wine is only wine if itโs aged. But the wine of the miracle had no past to be aged [since it had been water just minutes before the guests began drinking it and praising its quality].ย It had to, in a sense, be given a new past.ย If God can give a past where there was no past, then He can [also] remove a past where there was oneโ (The Book of Mysteries,ย p. 17). In other words, none of us can say, โI canโt do anything for the Lord because of my shameful past,โ or โBecause of my sins, Iโm not worthy to serve God or His people.” When God forgives usโespecially in the Sacrament of ReconciliationโHe doesnโt justย releaseย us from our sins; in His eyes, those sinsย cease to exist, and our past becomes holy and righteous in His sight.ย We are given a fresh startโand the Lord asks us to use this undeserved opportunity by letting Him work through us, as Tony did for Charlie.ย God wants to heal broken marriages, troubled relationships, unhappy childhoods, painful memories, and every other experience of hurt and sorrow and doubtโand many times He asks us to be His instruments of grace.ย If, when we try to do this in response to Godโs call, someone challenges us, โWho do you think you are?ย I know all about you and your pastโyouโre not perfect; youโre a sinner!โ our response should be, โYes, I am a sinnerโbut aย forgiven and redeemedย sinner.โ
Itโs not only some of the people around us who need spiritual or emotional healing; our society needs to be healed, as well.ย There was a time when America respected and defended all human lifeโbut that time is past.ย Ever since 1973 itโs been legal to kill children in their mothersโ wombsโand even though that infamousย Roe v. Wadeย Supreme Court decision was finally overturned three years ago, each state can still choose to allow abortion and other assaults on human life, such as euthanasia.ย Michigan used to be strongly pro-life, but now itโs one of the worst states in this regard.ย This is a tragic part of our pastโbut if enough of us truly live out our faith and let God work through us by means of our words, deeds, and prayers, our past can be changed; our simple but sincere efforts and contributions on behalf of the pro-life movement can be multiplied by Jesus into something miraculous, just as He turned six large jars of water into the finest wine anyone at the wedding feast in Cana had ever tasted.
In 1977 the great actor George Burns played the title role in the movie โOh, God!” The movie had some rather questionable theology, but it did make a very valid and important point.ย Near the end of the film God, in the person of George Burns, said, โI know these are difficult times in which to have faithโbut maybe if you had the faith to start with, the times would change.โย This message or reminder is just at timely and encouraging today as it was almost fifty years ago.ย Our simple efforts to bear witness to Jesus, our sincere willingness to help others whenever we can, and our humble but confident prayers, can indeed be multiplied by the Lord and be used by Him to help, inspire, and renew those around us, and perhaps even transform our society and our worldโand if this happens, we will truly have reason to celebrate and rejoice.ย






